這幾天以來,諸位勇敢的女孩、男孩們紛紛道出那些塵封已久且不願想起的回憶。
性騷擾、性侵害事件發生後,或許那道傷痕一直都在,悄悄影響了妳/你的人格發展、妳/
你的外在、甚至改變妳/你的人生。
但,妳/你們真正放過自己了嗎?
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這是一部被害人與加害人共同站在舞台上發表的演講。
其中,女孩說
原文如下
''I was raised in a world where girls are taught that they get raped for a rea
son. Their skirt was too short, their smile was too wide, their breath smelled
of alcohol. And I was guilty of all of those things, so the shame had to be m
ine. It took me years to realize that only one thing could have stopped me fro
m being raped that night, and it wasn't my skirt, it wasn't my smile, it wasn'
t my childish trust. The only thing that could've stopped me from being raped
that night is the man who raped me — had he stopped himself.
「這個世界告訴女孩們,因為妳們的裙子太短、因為你們的笑容太豔、因為妳們喝了酒,
所以妳們被騷擾。這件事讓我感到罪惡並且自責,我對自己的行為感到丟臉。我花了好多
年才理解到,這件事會發生在我身上,不是因為我的裙子,也不是因為我的笑容,更不是
因為我的天真。唯一能讓我避免這種傷害的人,是能控制自己行為的那個人。」
所以,各位曾經受傷的女孩/男孩們,謝謝妳/你們的堅強,儘管妳/你們真的感到受傷,
但別忘了,這一切不是妳/你的問題,而是他們選擇這樣傷害妳/你。
好好放過自己,過不去的不會過去,但哪天等妳/你想通了這點,會讓妳/你覺得似乎放下
了心裡頭的一點重量,會舒服很多。
連結:https://goo.gl/6KmRlE