The best arguments do not involve a lot of shouting, name-calling, or the
goal of proving someone wrong and yourself right. A good argument is fair,
honest and respectful, and it should lead to a conclusion where the truth is
validated without pointing the finger at anyone. You may be involved in some
sort of a conflict with someone now who may be particularly disagreeable. You
may think that shouting and all of above is the only way to deal with it. But
if you follow the guidelines for a healthy argument, the truth will inevitably
rise to the surface.
最好的爭吵並不包括吼叫、指名道姓，或證明別人是錯的你是對的。一個好的爭論是公平
、誠實且互相尊重的，同時爭吵後能達成結論，不須透過指責誰的過錯來辨明真相。你可
能涉入某種衝突，然而吵架的另一方似乎特別的令人討厭。你可能認為就是得怒吼或透過
上述方法才能解決問題，但如果你採行指引來進行較健康的爭論，那真相必將浮現、不證
自明。