When someone is behaving in a defensive manner, the best way to bring them
out of their shell is with kindness. As someone who spends a fair amount
of time in their shell, dear Moonchild, you can probably understand and
identify with this more than others. If you are trying to reach someone to
form a closer bond or build a foundation for better communication and you
are finding defensive behavior, you know just what to do. A little bit of
kindness and acceptance can go a long way toward building a strong
connection. Anything from a romance to a business alliance can be made
better this way.
當某個人表現出自我防衛的態度，帶領他走出自己的殼的最佳方式是友善與好意。當
某個人花了很多時間躲在自己的殼裡，親愛的月之子，或許你比其他人更能理解和感
同身受這件事。如果你正試著跟某個人接觸，建立更親密的情感連結，或是為一段更
好的對話打造基礎，但你卻發現了自我防衛的行為舉止，那麼你會知道該怎麼做的，
一點點的友善和接納可以長久地打造強而有力的情感連結，從愛情到商業結盟都可以
用這種方式而有所改善。