Do you feel that someone has been talking "at" you rather than directly
"to" you on a matter of great importance? Whether this is business or
personal, you have the right to be treated respectfully, Cancer. This
person might be doing this a lot, especially to you, and you reached your
limit long ago. Since you deserve respect but can't force someone to treat
you right or do the right thing, it becomes a difficult situation to deal
with. But you do have the power to step away and ignore what this person
is saying - at least until they deliver their message properly. If you
can't confront this person directly, there are more subtle ways to use -
and still deliver - the message.
你是不是感覺到某個人在你背後指指點點，而不是直接跟你講某件很重要的事呢？不
論這是工作或私人的事，你都有權利要求對方尊重你，巨蟹。這個人可能老是這樣，
尤其是針對你，而你很早之前就忍無可忍了。因為你值得被尊重，但是你不能強迫別
人用正確的方式對待你，或是做對的事，所以現在的狀況很棘手。不過你確實有權離
開，以及忽視他所說的話——至少等到他們可以好好的說話，再來聽他們說什麼也不
遲。如果你沒辦法直接面對這個人，有一些隱微的方式可以使用，以及傳遞那些訊息。