[請益] what should I do

作者: RemusKao (Idgie)   2019-01-12 18:54:58
The fellow from that vihara called my mother
and asked her to join their meal gathering.
My mother has serious insomnia and anxiety problem.
That’s because my father had an affair with a female fellow from that vihara.
The master of that vihara knew their thing.
My mother’s insomnia becomes serious because of that call.
Today, my father shouted at my mother because of this matter.
My mother thought the master should deleted her name.
It is very obvious my mother would not go there.
My father shouted and yell very loud,
How come the master know ! How come she knows my mother’s name is on that li
st!
Shouldn’t the master be more careful?
They had chance to had an affair is because she sent them to do errends
Only my father and that female fellow…
I don’t want to criticize anyone I just want to solve the problem.…
作者: ilanese (坐聽無弦曲)   2019-01-12 18:57:00
阿鬼你還是說中文吧!
作者: yogi (Yogi)   2019-01-12 19:03:00
Teaching sila is the foundation of any buddhist vihara.Those which dont emphasize on sila education are not worth to stay with.
作者: RemusKao (Idgie)   2019-01-12 19:15:00
those disciples believes only donate to that templecan get merits other temple’s can’t give merits…
作者: Whiteplus (陪伴是最珍貴的禮物)   2019-01-12 22:03:00
In my humble opinion, first of all, take your mother to see a doctor to fix the problems. Having a sound sleep and letting the anxiety be gone are a mustright now. Secondly, don’t let your father have the chance to see your mother coz he might shout oryell at your mother, which is another way to hurtyour mother intentionally and does no good to her.It’s just a piece of advice from a stranger and Isincerely hope that it does help you and your mother more or less.
作者: RemusKao (Idgie)   2019-01-12 22:30:00
We live together and financially depend on him...
作者: nmamtb (南無阿彌陀佛)   2019-01-13 07:09:00
Amitabha, I hope this could help you change your life~https://youtu.be/A1C0Hnx-Gk4 change the thought first~
作者: future261 (咪嗚貓抱著起司條)   2019-01-13 08:44:00
同1F,估狗過PTT ID都用中文發言阿 不就台灣人可知版上很多人都有多益黃金證照 一定能跟你對上法鼓文理學院有開設佛學英文 其實也鼓勵多用英文練習但是不是要觀場合一下 乾脆也來幾篇日文的要不要還有梵文跟藏文呢
作者: nmamtb (南無阿彌陀佛)   2019-01-13 09:31:00
And I suggest that you can do the three things:https://youtu.be/O797bodZYnMTo future261: His(or her) father maybe come here. He(or she) doesn't want he to see this article.
作者: terrytina19 (翼)   2019-01-13 18:26:00
南無月光如來 南無寶髻如來 南無藥師琉璃光如來南無地藏王菩薩 阿彌陀佛金剛經:一切有為法,如夢幻泡影,如露亦如電,應作如是觀

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