You are not one to judge, Virgo. You are someone who truly and deeply
appreciates a person's uniqueness. So why does a certain person seem to get
to you? You may be feeling harsh toward yourself because you believe you are
judging someone based on something that is different about them, but that may
not be what's bugging you. Could it be that you are sensing something that
clashes with your values, or maybe there is a history between you that is
causing you to feel defensive? You are entitled to feel what you naturally
feel. As long as you understand it, and it's valid, don't beat yourself up
over it.

好

不管怎樣都好糾結

處女座善於用自己的價值觀衡量對錯，卻往往忽視別人在真實情境下的決定往往處女座的預設立場更因時置宜。處女座的我在處女座好為人師的母親的淫威下不得不妥協之寫照。然後批判別人和聊八卦揭人隱微，依她的說法叫做「聊家常」。若我臨時出小狀況，讓她無法應變就叫做找她麻煩，等自己處理完善跟她雲淡風輕的提，她又暴怒沒有徵詢她讓她主導，這就是處女座。我自己花錢修自己的車為什麼要經過她同意指定地點啊！理由就是最噁爛的「為你好!」又不是她的財產。出一張78貧嘴，我的車會及時修好嗎？上次我掏腰包替她修12年老爺車也一樣跳針狂罵。身為處女座的自己每天都在提醒自己絕對不要自以為替人著想。

顧好自己就很棒，不用替別人做太多然後累死自己。(認真)