[吃草] DailyHoroscope11/10

作者: chy19890517 (mocat)   2019-11-10 13:14:58
當你想確認一段重要關係是好是壞時,對此做評估比較是很常態的做法。
你可能已經用了某種方式去做評估,而得到的結果是好壞參半。
然而,這並不是一個經營關係的絕佳方法。
若你想要增進與對方的關係,那麼你得看得更遠一些。
你需要的是以誠相待,而非深思熟慮。
對開心的事情大方坦誠,同時對引你不快的事情加以排除。
找尋一道合適的應對之道可以大大改善你與他人之間的關係,呣呣~
註:與人相處時往往會害怕碰觸到對方地雷,因此變得謹言慎行,舉凡說話內容、話題尺度、甚至是語氣音調等,講話猶如一場戰爭,一段為時不長的對話裡填塞了多少攻防。
但這樣一來便可得到對方信任嗎?
有時候與其謹慎,不如誠實面對自己的心情與感受,在與他人溝通的同時,其實也是在跟自己溝通。
When you look at a relationship very closely and examine the good and the bad the connection brings to your life, it's a very analytical way to assess it. That may be something you are doing now as you evaluate a bond you have with someone that has been up and down. But that isn't the best way to study a relationship. If you want it to be better, you have to look at the big picture. You have to feel it more than analyze it. Celebrate what makes you feel happy, and address what makes you feel stressed or
upset. Finding ways to adapt to the emotional reaction can make a positive difference, Taurus.
作者: bluesai   2019-11-10 13:52:00
謝謝
作者: goodcial (日子)   2019-11-10 19:32:00
謝謝
作者: nlmavs08 (Meng)   2019-11-10 19:48:00
謝謝
作者: cprrrr (cprrrr)   2019-11-10 20:59:00
謝謝,這真的是一直都在努力的課題
作者: gipo776 (幾不)   2019-11-10 21:43:00
謝謝
作者: allyisqueen (ally)   2019-11-10 22:06:00
謝謝,真的講中最近心煩的事
作者: misa0519 (死硬派)   2019-11-10 22:34:00
謝謝 很準確呢
作者: nabyqueen   2019-11-11 20:27:00
註解寫的真好

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