你可能與某個人對一項論點爭論不休。
乍看下似乎是只要堅持到某方認輸就等於贏了這場爭執。
但事實上那並不是正確的結果，僅是某一方默認這件事，而在這之中沒人會感到快樂。
爭執並非是說話比較大聲，或是固執己見到最後才是對的。
若你想完善的解決這件事，那麼你必須對自己誠實，虛心地與他人討論結果，同時，也可
能需要退步妥協。
註:固執或許是身為呣呣的通病，但在我認為的固執總有些大原則不能退讓，基於這個原
則下，適度的退步或許會是更好的選擇。
You or someone you know may be involved in an argument that has gone on for quite
some time.
It may seem that the winner will be the one who outlasts the other.
But that would not be a true agreement - it would be winning by default , and
no one would be happy.
It shouldn't be about who argues the loudest or the longest .
If this is to be worked out properly , there ahs to be an honest disscussion and
perhaps some compromise.