你可能已經盡可能的轉移自己的注意力,讓自己不要過度在意一件你不想處理的事情上。
但問題並不會因此獲得解決,它們總或有似無的在你身邊提醒你,暗示你必須去解決這個
問題。
不斷地拖延只是延長你解決的時間罷了。
即便你下定決心放置它、不處理這個問題,呣呣~它依然會讓你備受煎熬。
正視它,並且好好的解決才是正道。
註1:逃避有用,但不是一直都是。選擇逃避是為了獲得喘息的空間,但不代表可以忽視、
遺棄它,在喘口氣之後不妨再次思考如何面對吧! 休息時盡全力休息,休息過後再好好盤
算,切莫在休息時思考,思考時休息。
註2:今天是自己的生日,也很慶幸自己可以渾渾噩噩的來到這天。過去的自己只要逢九尾
數的年紀就會過得非常不愉快,過了今天以後,希望是個全新的開始。
You may be doing your best to distract yourself and divert your energy away
from a problem that you don't want to deal with.
But all of the distractions can't take away that nagging feeling that keeps
reminding you that you have to take care of the issue.
Putting this off will only lengthen the time you have to deal with it.
Because even though you are not deal with it directly by resolving it , Taurus,
you are suffering the pangs of worry.
Face it and move on with a good feeling of completion istead.