作者:
gonegirl (will be gone forever)
2016-06-18 20:39:01儘管你能了解你的論點
但是這不代表你是對的
你可能開啟一個非常沒有惡意的對話
但卻演變成令人暴躁且不友善的結果
你相信你是在保護自己而且覺得被霸凌
但可能對方也同樣這麼覺得
如果你用善意對待別人 而非懷有戒心的
你能扭轉這局勢
Even though you can only understand your side of an argument, Taurus, that doe
sn't mean that you are right. You may have started out in an innocent-enough c
onversation, only to find that it devolved into something more volatile and un
kind. You may even believe that you are defending yourself because you are bei
ng bullied, but that can go both ways. If you treat the other person with kind
ness instead of getting defensive, you can turn this thing around.