Someone close to you - a friend, a family member, or even a spouse - may
be giving you a really hard time about a choice you want to make. They may
be arguing with you, criticizing you, and pleading with you to make a
different choice. Although this might be quite annoying, you have to
consider the reasons for it. At the foundation of all this "nagging," you
will find someone who cares deeply about you and about what you do. If you
see their actions through that lens, you will appreciate it much more, and
you will also be more open to hearing words of wisdom.
有個跟你很親近的人—朋友、家人或者甚至是配偶—也許會讓你難以做出你想做的選
擇。他可能會跟你爭辯、批評你、然後懇求你做出不同的選擇。儘管這或許會讓你相
當煩惱，可是你還是必須認真思考原因。在這些讓你「不得安寧」的基礎之上，你將
會發現某個人是真的很在乎你，也很在乎你所做的事。如果你透過鏡頭檢視他的行為，
那你將會更加感謝對方，而你也將會更願意敞開心胸來傾聽有智慧的言詞。

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