作者:
kl25082 (è²)
2025-02-15 03:10:15Someone may be implying that you always get a bit defensive when a certain
topic comes up in conversation - perhaps about a relationship. If you
think about it, dear Scorpio, you may discover that it's true. But why?
Could it be that you have some unresolved guilt over the way a situation
developed? You don't want to accept the blame, but then again, if you do,
you can then find a way to make the situation better. Confront those
feelings you have - including the defensiveness - and you will find a way
to turn things around.
有人也許會暗示你總是在聊到某個特定的話題的時候,防禦心會變得有點重—或許是
跟伴侶關係有關的議題。如果你仔細思考看看,親愛的天蠍,你可能會發現這是真的。
但為什麼會這樣呢?是不是因為你對某個發展至今的情況,有著懸而未決的愧疚感?
你不想接受他人對你這樣批評,可是如果你接受了,你就可以找出方法改善這個情況。
正視自己的那些感受—包括防備心—然後你將會想出辦法來扭轉局面。