You may be torn between two approaches to talking about a problem that
involves others. You might prefer to handle the matter with kid gloves,
choosing each word carefully to soften the blow of an awkward topic of
conversation. Someone else might recommend that you be blunt, very
straightforward, and use harshnessas needed to get your point across. But
there is another option where you can meet both approaches in the middle.
Try expressing just the facts, and hopefully, that will be enough to let
others see the light.