When someone knows the difference between right and wrong, and they do somethi
ng that is wrong, we can fault them and perhaps punish them for their actions.
But if someone is unaware of the difference for some reason, blaming them wou
ld be pointless - but teaching them would be valuable. Someone may have done s
omething recently that was foolish or hurtful. You may be tempted to speak out
about it, dear Leo, but if that person doesn't understand your reason for bei
ng upset, help them understand instead.
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當有人知道對與錯之間的區別，並且他們做了一些錯誤的事情時，我們可能懲罰他們。
但是如果有人因為某種原因而沒有意識到他們做錯事，那麼指責他們就沒有意義 - 但教
導他們會很有價值。
最近有人可能做了一些愚蠢的事情。 你可能很想說出來，但如果那個人不知道你在生氣
啥，請幫助他們理解。