Have you ever sat through a movie with someone who talks incessantly? If so, y
ou know how difficult it can be to follow the story, let alone enjoy it. That
person will ask questions, express emotions, and generally make comments about
what is going on throughout the film. It damages the experience for others. S
omeone you have called on for help may be doing that now. The very thing you n
eed help with is being damaged by that person's involvement. This is unintenti
onal, but it's difficult just the same. Try going it alone for a while. You'll
probably figure it out by yourself.
你是否曾經和一個一直不停在講話的人看過電影？
如果真的有過，那麼你知道你有多困難跟上劇情，獨自享受電影。
那個人會問問題，表達情緒，並且對電影情節中發生的事情表達意見。
他危害到其他人觀賞電影的經驗。
某個你曾經尋求幫助的人正在那樣做。
你最需要幫助的事情因那個人的干預而受損害。
這個人也許是無心之過，但是同樣困難。
試著單獨行動一會兒，你自己就會理解出來。
Ps. 如果有誤譯請指教，謝謝。