Today a friend of mine asked me if
he has a chance to have love affairs,
what is he supposed to do?
Actually I mean yesterday, not today.
And he is married.
I feel a little bit surprised coz we are
Not that close friends.
I mean it seems not so ok to ask
me such a question coz I am not male.
To be frank, why not ask his male friends?
All right.
Instead of asking him why he asked me, I asked him another question.
“ What do you want?”
He simply replied,” I don’t know.”
I told him I don’t know either coz this
Is his life not mine and
I can’t tell him what the lesson might be
coz most people they are not listening.
I mean we can’t teach people about life
experiences coz they need to experience them by themselves.
I am not talking about love affairs.
I am talking about the struggles,
the conflicts and the desires.
It’s a little bit embarrassing coz
I only asked him a question,
which seems not good enough for him.
I hope that eventually he really realizes
what he wants.