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作者: slutty   2019-06-10 19:40:03
看完這篇文章完全佩服到五體投地,
能分辨出在網海中滑呀滑的究竟是想滑到什麼,
已經很不簡單,還親身做出試驗執行改變!Amazing!
完全百分之百認同格主最後提到的:
"True freedom is impossible without a mind made free by discipline.
想獲得真正自由就必須高度自律。
我們想要改變習慣,莫過於想成為更好的自己,掌握更多的人生自主權。
透過有效的習慣改造指南,轉化那些虛擲時光、百害無益的舊習,擺脫直覺式、本性式的
思考和行為模式,打造出高度自律的生活。懂得掌握習慣的規律並調整之,形塑自己理想
中的生活樣貌,才能達到身心靈的真正自由。
習慣不會限制自由,而是創造了自由。事實上,沒能掌握習慣的人往往擁有最少的自由。
—《原子習慣》"
出處:https://reurl.cc/x8VVZ
之前格主分享《垃圾場長大的自學人生》的讀書心得,
節錄劍橋教授和Tara對話的那段,也瞬間讓我熱淚盈眶,深受感動:
"童年的自卑情節讓 Tara 認為這些宏偉的事物都閃耀著光芒,除了她自己。
但教授回應她的這段激勵和肯定,讓我反覆聽了好多回:
You must stop yourself from thinking like that. You are not fool's gold,
shining only under a particular light. Whomever you become,whatever you make
yourself into, that is who you always were. It was always inyou. Not in
Cambridge. In you. You are gold. And returning to BYU, or even to that
mountain you came from, will not change who you are. It may change how others
see you, it may even change how you see yourself - even gold appears dull in
some lighting - but that is the illusion. And it always was.
妳必須停止那麼想,妳不是只有在特定光線下才會發光的假黃金。無論妳成為誰,無論妳
轉變成什麼,妳就是妳。真實的妳就在妳的內心,而不是在劍橋,妳就是貨真價實的黃金
。無論妳回到楊百翰大學或故鄉的山區,也不會改變妳是誰。這可能改變別人怎麼看妳,
也可能改變妳怎麼看自己。真金即使在特定的光線下,也可能顯得暗淡無光,但這只是假
象。"
出處:https://reurl.cc/VobOZ

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