在處理完一場危機或問題之後,回頭看時,往往會更清楚自己「本該怎麼做」才會更好。
而當事情沒有如願時,你就容易責怪自己,覺得「我早該知道得更好」。
親愛的月之子,你有時甚至會為一些自己根本沒做的事感到內疚,而今天你可能正有這樣
的感覺。
你覺得自己當初應該用不同的方式去處理某件事。
這種「事後才明白」的領悟是常有的事,畢竟事後回想總是特別清楚。
放過自己吧,別過太苛求。
當你放下後,就會發現這根本不算什麼大問題。
既然你現在知道「應該怎麼做」了,那就從現在開始去做就好。
After you handle a crisis or a problem, it's easier to see what you should hav
e done if it didn't work out. Then you tend to blame yourself because you thin
k you should have known better. You sometimes feel guilty for things you didn'
t even do, dear Cancer, and you may be feeling that way today. You think you s
hould have handled something differently. You are experiencing this revelation
after the fact, and as you know, hindsight is twenty-twenty. Give yourself a
break. If you relax, you'll see that this isn't really a problem at all. Now t
hat you know what you "should have" done, just do it.