You may have endured a lot and compromised more than you wanted in an
effort to please a romantic partner, or someone else who plays a big role
in your life. Now you are dealing with the reality of what you have given
up, and it may not be as easy as you thought it would be. However,
Moonchild, that may be because you are framing your circumstances with
negative thoughts and focusing on what you gave up - rather than on what
you have gained in exchange. Think of it that way, and you may see things
differently.
為了努力取悅你的另一半，你可能已經承受了很多，也妥協了比你想的還要多。現在
你正在面對你放棄了多少的事實，這可能不像你想像的那麼輕鬆。然而，月之子，這
或許是因為你用負面想法建構出自己的處境，還有只看到自己放棄了什麼，而不是交
換之後，你得到了什麼。這樣想想看吧，你會用不同的角度看見更多的。