You may have created an illusion about someone in your mind, Moonchild.
You have noticed all the superficial things that stand out about this
person, and lumped them into your mental computer and come out with a
picture that probably doesn't match up quite right. You are ordinarily
very nuanced in the way you assess someone. You usually have a talent for
looking into someone's soul and seeing their true self, no matter what
lies on the surface. Take another look. There may be some personal reason
you aren't seeing the big picture.