You may be able to look at an emotionally charged situation in a calmer,
more objective way than you once could. That's great because it is time to
start thinking about the best way to approach this issue. The person you
need to talk to may still be in a deeply emotional state, but your reserved
tone will enhance your communication. Take advantage of this perfect timing,
Moonchild, because right now you can broach the subject in a much more
open-minded way, and the other party will therefore be far more receptive.
You can work through this without incident if you remain patient.