Someone may imply that you are selfish for not wanting to accept an invitation
or do something that is centered around a friend or associate. You are anything
but selfish though, Cancer, and you shouldn't listen to such insulting talk. If
you want to bow out and decline an invitation, then you must surely have good
reasons for it. On the other hand, there could possibly be something positive
in the experience, and you should explore it fully before you say no.