為什麼不該追求愛情
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O2ucDApdbvs
戀愛與職場原來有這麼多相似之處？商業顧問張國洋認為，不少人在談戀愛時常被中文所
謂的「追求」二字給誤導了，傾向聽從直覺採取一個容易把對方嚇退的策略。
但實際上要發展長遠的戀愛關係，我們應像知名品牌建立客戶興趣那樣，採取一種釣魚型
的策略：一面拿出價值與口碑吸引魚群；另一方面，則要避免急躁收線以免把魚線弄斷。
It is very similar between pursuing lover and building career. Business
consultant JHANG, GUO YANG thinks a lot of people have misunderstood the
meaning of "pursue the love", and often scare off the one. In fact, if people
want to develope a long term relationship, should make the target interested
in them just like to make the customer interested in the brand. Take fishing
for example, fisher lure the fish with value and good reputation but doesn't
rush to reel the thread in, otherwise, the string might break and the fish
will go away.
很時尚的觀念，不追不求，其實就是很節制克己的情欲管理，在古代叫君子，在西方叫紳
士。現在叫精品，除了昂貴，還有深奧獨特的內涵。