You may think that if you are determined enough, kind enough, honest enough, f
air enough, and understanding enough you can fix something that is broken in a
relationship. That would be a wise way of looking at it, Aries, if the other
person involved was of the same mindset. However, no matter how far above and
beyond you go to make something work, you are still limited by what the other
party does and what kind of a commitment they make to the same goal. Don't bea
t your head against a wall to make something work if you're getting nothing in
return.
你可能覺得如果你能更果斷、更寬容、更誠實、更公平，就能修補感情中的裂痕。如果對
方也抱著相同心態，有智慧的做法就是正視它。然而，無論付出多少努力想讓事情好轉，
你仍然受限於對方的行動，及他們為了相同目的所做的承諾。若你無法得到任何回報或進
展，就別枉費力氣了（原文：拿自己的頭去撞牆以讓事情好轉）。