作者:
gonegirl (will be gone forever)
2016-06-21 11:08:03你試著說服、哄騙甚至威脅某人同意你
但你真的想要的是真正的理解、雙方面的共識
如果你強迫別人去理解你的想法
這只會是暫時的狀態
但如果讓這個人自己去了解你是更好的
提供事實 表達你的想法
然後給這個人一些時間去消化
你們將有機會能意見一致
You can try to convince, cajole, or even threaten someone into agreeing with y
ou, Taurus, but what you really want is genuine understanding and a mutual agr
eement. If you have to force someone to see your side of things, it might be a
temporary fix, but if that person comes to an understanding on their own it w
ill be much better. Present the facts. Express how you feel about the elements
of the situation. And then give that person time to absorb it all. Chances ar
e you will wind up seeing eye to eye.